I arrive in middle age at a beginning, so now I write and speak. I do these acts to correct some learned habits of believing I must know where I will end before I open my mouth to say anything. Such learned habits, I see now, have conditioned my seeming docility.
Fortunately, I have no ends. Better yet, I see this now. So here is as good a place as any, to begin.
This is a small act of defiance, against the idea that the purpose of saying anything is to make a point and that the point is to mean something. Some perspective is afforded now, from witness. To the urgency of the kings of the world, to end this life. (To be clear, some make the point more subtly than others, but to be a prize is a kind of end, and it is possible to spend a life chasing this state, only to learn to see it for the burial it is.)
This affords some confidence to say that one approach that many take when confronted with the impossible fact of a life, is to bring it to a point. Some end to justify the means and all of that. Very Machiavellian. Such notions are rampant now. Knowing this moves me, too.
Nothing I mean to say is so abstract that it may be extracted, like oil from my flesh. Oil, biologically speaking, is the accumulation of bodies under pressure over time. I am nowhere near the age of oil, as I am still alive. The fact of being so is what I mean to value now.
Also, my connection to the dead. This, I treasure. How would I continue, I wonder, without their excellent company? The dead have always been around me, speaking. These and the not yet born have much to say, and little of their ripe and blooming abundance has anything to do with points. The dead, as you may imagine, often have a sense of humor when it comes to ends, as this affords their carrying on. The not-yet-born are young enough to laugh with full bellies of air, at the absurdity, of aiming for a point in the midst of all of this.
I have to agree with the last paragraph. It matches my own experience.
Thank you for this. 🙏🏼 It was a timely reminder.
I am so glad it resonates, Michael. Here’s to synchronicity : )
One wonders at what gets lost between the beginning and the end.
Great piece, Stacey.
Thank you, Chris. I love how you put that. Wishing you a beautiful day, friend.
And my best to you too.
Haha, reading each other in tandem. A connection in this lonely world.
Yes! : )
After my mom died, we were having a little conversation, and she told me she was just about to be reborn into form. In my ignorance and compassion (give myself a little credit), I told her that I hoped that her next life would hold more joy, that it would be a great life. She laughed and with the hummingbird energy that always accompanied her presence said, it all looks good from here. Your piece is wonderful, filled to the brimless brim with untethered aliveness.
I love this so much, sister, and my heart swells with gratitude to read it. Please forgive my delayed response. It has been an especially trying week. What a beautiful meditation. I love this line, “it all looks good from here.” Deep bow to you, Amaya. Thank you.