I have an idea.
How to die.
Please. I’m trying to just––
No, it’s about that too, hear me out. Let’s not put these bodies in boxes when we’re done with them.
Ah, the boxes. What size, what wood, what level of cushioning? Where to put the box, and what shoes?
Let’s give it up, that whole thing.
The whole habit of protection, when it comes to these temporary husks.
The inevitable ends we want to rage against. The humiliation of decay.
Not to mention of a bare face, unpainted.
Exactly. What were we doing with all of that, anyway?
What were we hoping to keep?
Look at the fate of cut flowers, gathered with the same impulse. I mean––
Any vase, however flimsy, will outlast its contents, destined in most cases to wind up broken.
Or on a Goodwill shelf with a sticker.
Let’s try something else. What if we burned as we lived, saving none?
Fuel for the living. What if––
we used the container we keep––
––for growing, instead?
With all the dirt, filth, worms––
Husks of fruit––
Let the falling seeds have at it.
If I’m going anyway, let me spend what I have on the living.
Here it is, take it. This hand.
Not to chain, but to comfort.
Yes, and this face. Not to photograph,
To hold a gaze. These eyes, even.
Don’t cover them with coins.
Eat this vision, I am giving it up.
Don’t strike me down.
Don’t box and bury me.
Let the fire eat my excess.
Let me prefer this and the way it reduces
––my body from its confines, to magnify
Infinitely. Then put me at the base of a tree.
Let me be dust. I am going now. Hold none of me.
In the spring, I will bloom for you, reminding you back.
To an original question: what is beauty without death?
To make it something we ache to be, hold; being held inside it, holding.
Wait. It comes for you also, but also coming is this impossible bloom.
A thousand bursts. Like cotton balls when you squint, in baby-blanket pink.
Rest against this trunk.
Of my shade. There will be nothing to hold
but there you will be, cool inside it.
Cool from burning?
Yes, you will be cooling from the burning
there, in the shade of my ash, for a little while.
And you will welcome me there?
For how long?
How long will you stay? Don’t answer.
Because when the time comes, you will burn it all up again.
Still, I will be at the end of the burn and the beginning of this tree––this cooling shade, waiting.
This post is inspired by an article I read this morning in My Modern Met (one of my go-to haunts for inspiration), about new environmentally friendly developments in burial rituals: vertical gravesites, human compost, and the option of burying ashes at the base of a new-planted tree.